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December 25, 2006, 10:14 pm PST
Reigniting Romance in Your Relationship
Quote From: laurijHey everyone. I am new to these boards. I have really been racking my brain to figure out what is going on with my relationship. My live-in boyfriend of 2 1/2 yrs. are experiencing some technical difficulties. Our relationship is good except for lack of sex. I have tried and tried to figure this out. It started about 6 mos. into our relationship.. things started going downhill. Our sex life slowly started declining and now I'm lucky if I get it 1 time a month. He works alot and so do I. But in reference to this quote.. I started gaining weight after all of this started. And I totally agree with the fact that I shouldn't have let myself go. Thank you for writing this. I am going to put losing weight to the forefront of my mind. I am willing to try anything at this point. The post you responded to is ridiculous because it supposes that weight gain is a reflection on how one feels about their spouse..that's just B.S....I have gained weight, a lot of weight, I'm not so pretty anymore, but I feel that I love my husband more now and I feel that he loves me more now. My weight gain had to do with clinical depression I suffer from, not how I feel about him.
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