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December 27, 2006, 8:23 am PST
worry but not too much
Quote From: swedish_girlHi, I am 18 years old and live in Sweden. I guess you know that the Swedish and the American look at sex is very different, and it is very hard for me to understand why Americans are so afraid of their children having sex. Pregnancy, of course, but there are condoms, and I think that young kids are smart enough to use them..I don't know anyone that have sex without condoms or other birth controls. I don't understand either why the age difference is sych a big problem to you? I would have understood if he was 33, but 23? If your daughter is an adult, which most 17-year olds are, I think that she could handle it.
But I do understand that you don't like him because he uses drugs, and that's a big problem. Maybe you should tell the police? I understand that your daughter would get mad at you and think that she hates you, but it definetely would be worth it, and she would thank you when she's older and can look at things in a different way.
Well, I guess that's all I have to say. But I would like to know the thing I wrote first; why are Americans so afraid or their children having sex?? If they want it, and they use condoms or other birth controls; let them enjoy it!
Linda i'm 16 and i live with my single mom too. i have a boyfriend who is going to be 19 in less that a month. the reason i'm am allowed to see him is because my mom knows him i don't think she likes him but she also knows his parents. if i what to go to his house then i do but i'm always afraid that she will call his house and talk to his parents like are they there what are they doing. my mom knew he was older that me because i have dated him in the past. when she meet him she asked how are are you..him 16..my mom let me see your i.d. if he would have lied about it then she wouldn't have let me see him. your daughter is going to be 18 eventuly and if you really want help then you can get it. you can take her to talk to a shrink. shes not 18 yet so you pretty much own her. if she refuses to then you can call the cops. my mom has done it. if you want to hear more about how you can force your daughter to get help then you can contact me
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