So, are you saying she should lower her standards and marry just anybody? Or were you alluding to the no sex before marriage thing? For some ppl it IS worth it to take things slower and fall in love with someone, not just their penis. People CAN have meaningful romantic relationships without sex, and it's better I think to work on the relationship. So if you withhold sex, does that mean the person doesn't love you anymore, uh, NO! Or at least it shouldn't affect the way someone feels about you.
