Quote From: sadgrlinmdI'M A 30 YR OLD FEMALE W/ 2 CHILDREN.I'VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP W/ THE SAME MAN FOR 14YRS..SEPT. 20,2005. HE CHEATED ON ME IN 1997 AND IN 2003. 2 DIFFERENT WOMAN. THE MOST RECENT WAS IN 2003 W/ A FEMALE CO-WORKER.I WAS DEVASTATED, TO SAY THE LEAST. IT HAS COMPLETELY CHANGED WHO I WAS....I'M NOT HAPPY ANYMORE. EVERYDAY HE GOES TO WORK AND EVERYDAY I'M SICK. I REALLY NEED SOME SUPPORT AND INPUT ON THIS ISSUE...I STILL THINK ABOUT IT ALL THE TIME AND I JUST WANT TO GET BACK TO SOME SORT OF NORMAL LIFE AGAIN.
I don't know about your husband,but,I, also had doubts about my husband's fidelity. Is this a "moment"issue or are you seriously sick of it? I used to be a strong woman, but,I lost my strength after 10 years of it. You have 2 children...you're lucky. I was always told by doc's. that I would die if I concieved. But, I did and I am a proud mom of a very healthy 7 year old. But, you know what? The look in my little girl's eye's when she seen me & daddy unhappy was the last straw!! Take a minute and truly look in your kid's eye's..you'll find the answer... I Promise....