Quote From: skwirlWhat is it that attracts you to a man/woman and what is it that turns you off? First, I think I am attracted to a beautiful genuine smile. Second, the attitude, I like a confident man, with a zest for life, one that's not bitching all the time about how life has done them wrong. Everyone's gonna bitch a little, but If you don't like what life has dealt you, then get off your ass and do something about it, don't just sit and whine about it ALL the time. Third, I can't stand a cocky man!!! I can't stand guys that feel like they have something to prove and their answer to everything, is "I'm gonna kick somebody's ass!". Also don't like men that have no sense of responsibility. I like a man that does what he says he's gonna do and takes care of business. Dependable, spontaneous, light hearted, caring, giving, loving, finds humor in life, sensitive..........................holy crap, now I don't know where to stop! Oh yeah! A cute butt would be good to, but not particularly neccessary!
TURN OFFS: I don't like a man that smokes...but, I wouldn't say I wouldn't date one, as long as he doesn't smoke around me..and IF in a more serious relationship, I think I'd like to see him stop..I don't like 'loud' mouths, someone that brags about how great he is or how successful or money he has...I don't like it, when he's not interested in what you have to say...I don't like a man, that gets forward...too fast...I don't like a man that drinks too much, and doesn't take care of his health/body..
TURN ONS: I like a quiet man, but not too quiet...because, I like a sense of humor...I like a man, that likes to be spontaneous...like, while out shopping I like just out of the blue, playing those air hockey thing...I know, I know one day they were throw me out of the 'toy' department...lol...I like a man that likes nature, as I do...that out of the blue, hopping around the rocks around streams, and see who falls first in the water...OR climbing on those walls that they have sometimes, at playgrounds...I love rock climbing, even though I'm afraid of heights...I like for a man to like that too, and once your as far as you want to climb...you can just see such beautiful views...I have to have a man that enjoys camping, hiking, water sports...and I like a man, that can sit and watch a movie with me..(chick flick lol) and eaiting popcorn...and not worry he's going to get forward with me...I like a man that really is interested in what I have to say...I love seeing a man, in a baseball cap or football, etc..sporty type..I like a man that takes care of himself...his body and health...and last but not least a man that wears COLONGE (think I spelled that wrong) especially, if it's Ralph Lauren ..romance...gee, I hope he wouldn't wear that on a first date...lol...that is what really gets to me...lol Dee
