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January 6, 2007, 7:09 pm PST

01/10 Mega Moochers

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       I also have a 31 year old son that has mooched off his DAD AND i SENCE HE WAS 16, WE ARE BOTH TIRED OF HIM USING  US AND WE HAVE TOLD HIM AS MUCH, BUT HE KEEPS ASKING FOR MORE AND WE ARE LIKE THE ONE WE DON'T WANT TO SEE OUR GRANDDAUGHTER LIVE IN THE STREETS. HOW DOES ONE STOP? BY THE WAY I LOVE YOUR SHOW AND I WATCH IT AS MUCH AS I CAN BUT MY DISABLE HUSBAND AND I TAKE CARE OF MY 90 YEAR OLD FATHER THAT HAD A STROKE IN 2003. HE CAN'T TALK OR WALK. SO I DO EVERYTHING CAUSE MY HUSBAND ALSO HAD A BRAIN TUMOR REMOVED IN 1982  AND IT AFFECT HIS WALKING ALSO. SO MUCH FOR THAT. I WOULD LIKE TO STOP WITH OUR SON. PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. THANK YOU LOVE TO  YOU AND ALSO ROBIN I LOVE HER TO PIECES. I HAVE HER BOOK WONDERFUL SO FOR.

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                                                  LINDA LOU S.

Out of curiosity, what is he asking for ?

Milk for the child ? okay, BUY it YOURSELF, seriously no more money to him.

RENT ?

Can you really afford it ? No, well you shouldn't be using YOUR savings to support him, and you have enough on your plate without having to worry about an ABLE BODIED adult, where is the child's MOTHER in all this ?  Is she working or are you forced to support her as well ? Maybe some time in a shelter ( yes I know they can be horrible places, especially for the child ) you raised yours, and unfortunately, they have to raise theirs.

Sometimes we have to take the hardline, and force them to stand on their own, like I stated before you won't be around forever, and then what do they do ?

But no more cash, and only get what the CHILD needs, you might be surprised at how fast things turn around.
 
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January 10, 2007, 9:51 am PST

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Quote From: slinda

Dr.Phil

       I also have a 31 year old son that has mooched off his DAD AND i SENCE HE WAS 16, WE ARE BOTH TIRED OF HIM USING  US AND WE HAVE TOLD HIM AS MUCH, BUT HE KEEPS ASKING FOR MORE AND WE ARE LIKE THE ONE WE DON'T WANT TO SEE OUR GRANDDAUGHTER LIVE IN THE STREETS. HOW DOES ONE STOP? BY THE WAY I LOVE YOUR SHOW AND I WATCH IT AS MUCH AS I CAN BUT MY DISABLE HUSBAND AND I TAKE CARE OF MY 90 YEAR OLD FATHER THAT HAD A STROKE IN 2003. HE CAN'T TALK OR WALK. SO I DO EVERYTHING CAUSE MY HUSBAND ALSO HAD A BRAIN TUMOR REMOVED IN 1982  AND IT AFFECT HIS WALKING ALSO. SO MUCH FOR THAT. I WOULD LIKE TO STOP WITH OUR SON. PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. THANK YOU LOVE TO  YOU AND ALSO ROBIN I LOVE HER TO PIECES. I HAVE HER BOOK WONDERFUL SO FOR.

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                                                  LINDA LOU S.

You created him and continue to enable him. He has NO incentive to do anything but mooch!

Close up your home and wallet to him. If he is out on the street, have him leave his daughter with you (or another stable family member) OR call social services on him.

 

This will NOT be easy, but it's a mess you guys created. You need to stop this cycle now. I have faith in you. If you want it bad enough, you CAN and WILL do it. God bless you, your husband, your son and your grandchild.
 
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March 18, 2007, 8:12 pm PDT

Moocher relatives

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Dr.Phil

       I also have a 31 year old son that has mooched off his DAD AND i SENCE HE WAS 16, WE ARE BOTH TIRED OF HIM USING  US AND WE HAVE TOLD HIM AS MUCH, BUT HE KEEPS ASKING FOR MORE AND WE ARE LIKE THE ONE WE DON'T WANT TO SEE OUR GRANDDAUGHTER LIVE IN THE STREETS. HOW DOES ONE STOP? BY THE WAY I LOVE YOUR SHOW AND I WATCH IT AS MUCH AS I CAN BUT MY DISABLE HUSBAND AND I TAKE CARE OF MY 90 YEAR OLD FATHER THAT HAD A STROKE IN 2003. HE CAN'T TALK OR WALK. SO I DO EVERYTHING CAUSE MY HUSBAND ALSO HAD A BRAIN TUMOR REMOVED IN 1982  AND IT AFFECT HIS WALKING ALSO. SO MUCH FOR THAT. I WOULD LIKE TO STOP WITH OUR SON. PLEASE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. THANK YOU LOVE TO  YOU AND ALSO ROBIN I LOVE HER TO PIECES. I HAVE HER BOOK WONDERFUL SO FOR.

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                                                  LINDA LOU S.

I would have booted all the freeloaders out of my house a long time ago. Helping a person is one thing, but supporting them after a yr or so out of high school is another. As far as the people who don't want to see their grandkids in the street, TAKE CUSTODY of the kids and let the bums get a job. You would have a good case since they are NOT trying to support themselves, let lone a child they brought into this world just so they would have an excuse to freeload more. You are enabling them by giving in. Kick them out NOW or quit bleating about it. You all ask for advice and when it is given, you ignore it. It will NEVER stop unless YOU stop it.  It makes me angry to even reply to stupid stuff like this. You KNOW what you must do. Quit being spineless and do it.
 
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