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September 15, 2005, 11:33 am PDT
Oh My Gosh, I have Goosebumps....
Quote From: gaktstonerI usually post on the abuse board but was looking around the boards today. I don't know if this will help ya', but, my h is mean, angry, not nice and doesn't smile. I have come to realize he is controlling and emotionally, verbally, financailly & mentally abusive to me. I am a SHM for 12 yrs and am trying to divorce my h b/c I can't live like this anymore nor do I want my two children to think that this is the way a marrriage is. The thing with my situation is, my h being controlling and all, hasn't moved out and won't agree to anything in the divorce. I feel like I am living a mental, emotional hell. Well, I don't know what my point is except for you to explore all possibilities and sometimes it helps to have someone to talk to (or post to!!). Good luck & best wishes. Your life sounds like mine. I want him to leave, but he wont. He now threatens that I will not use his money to pay for anything. I dont get much, but I will not be able to pay for everything. Are you just so sick of looking at your husbands face? Always mad at something. I feel the same way you do about showing my son that this is not the way life should be. He will fight me on everything, and I know he will not leave me alone. I also feel like I am living in HELL sometimes, and there is no way out. Good Luck to you too and keep posting. Its nice to know someone feels the way I do. You take care too....
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