Quote From: tray00I wouldn't be suprised if your 17 yr old is smoking pot as well. You need to talk to your kids, talk to your 15 yr old about sex, ask her if she is doing it? Your 12 yr old is going to drop out of school????You need to get a handle on these kids, they sound as though they are walking all over you. Put your foot down, don't let them out of the house so they can't do this step. Good luck
I feel for you so greatly! What a dificult position to be in, but not an impossible one. Like Dr.Phil says, "It's time to get a back bone!" Starting by doing whatever it takes to get the oldest in line. Like you said, the younger ones will imitate the older ones. Set your rules, and don't take any lip!! Be willing to yell, inflict punishment, and stick to your guns. If your child steals from you, let them know you will call the police and report it. If you can't stop them from stealing from YOU, the police will be involved soon enough! Let them get a taste of such punishment BEFORE it means time in prison. You will be doing them a favor! As you go about setting up these rules, be about getting yourself together too. Don't let them see you crying about them. Their behavior calls for anger!!! How DARE they?? I know one girl who's mother caught her sleeping in the bath tub with the water nearly drowning her because she had taken drugs. This is not a "correct" response, but effective. Her mother chased her though the house thrashing her with a belt, telling her she'd better never do it again! You can bet her daughter didn't!!!
Good luck and
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MarthaAnna
