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I'm a man and have a point of view, lol

I consider my wife hot and sexy.  In a fake world like movie stars and such, I think a women like Catherine Zeta Jones is nice looking or at least my type.  I like a classy women, not a Britney Spears type, but a Diane Lane type or Susan Sarandon.  I'm 31, blonde hair, blue eyes, but like the more sophisticated women, someone that likes me.  I like belly piercing on the right person.  My wife also has one, lol  Tattoos, just depends on the area, on a women tattoos can look bad in certain places like arms.  My wife also has 4 tattoos and I have 5.   I love a women who can think and talk about deeper things, such as politics, religion, etc.  I love a sense of humor, because how can you not laugh in a relationship. 

I like a working women and a woman that can defend her stance on anything she believes.  I like the natural look on a women, because something about make-up, makes me feel a women is hiding behind something.  I want to know she will look the same when I wake up next to her.  I feel that women hide behind the make-up, so much so that they cannot be seen without it.  I don't like insecurity, even just ok women can look good with confidence.  I don't care about money and it's a turn off when a women does.  If I had a first date and a women asked what I do and how much money I make, That would be a red flag for me. 

I guess my biggest thing is the money.  I feel people can be happy without much and money causes many problems in relationships.  Superficial women turn me off.  Racists or Racists comments turn me off.  Oh and the , I'm a women you are a man and the whole " we have our roles" thing turns me off.  Things should always be equal.  So I hope this helps a bit.  I was summons off the Debating among different religious beliefs board to answer this question, lol

This board is kinda hard to find dee, plus it just started,just give it some time and more guys will show, at least I hope they will!

I felt the need to comment on the statement you made about men being attracted to "smart" girls. I feel the same as you. I'm not a real "intellectual" person, but I'm plenty smart in other ways. What I consider smart and someone else considers smart could be two totally different things. Guess there are alot of definitions to "smart". One person my be attracted to one type of smart, and someone else another. In some situations I feel like a total dumbass, but in others I'm very knowledgeable. So it all comes down to your /their definition. I would freeze too if a man said he liked intellectual stimulation, because to me, intellectual means knowleadgeable in lot's of wordly things, most of which I could give a sh*t about! LOL!!! Now if someone is out for fun and the happiness that simple things and simple thinking bring, then I'm soooo there!