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September 15, 2005, 5:46 pm PDT
SHe was drugged and assaulted
Quote From: lilywhite8So many young Americans, get drunk every weekend and act irresponsibly. I am in now way implying that Natalle deserved to be killed. HOWEVER, leaving with 3 strangers in a foreign country was certainly the WRONG choice to make. Hopefully, some young women have smartened up realizing that you can't just do thing haplessly. And where were the so-called chaperones?? People can talk about the goverments response, all they want but there are many ways this tragedy could have been avoided. you act as though she had all her facility's after being what I understand she was drugged. she did have a couple drinks, maybe not even two, but it only takes one drink and a date rape drug to get her so looped she had no idea what she was doing. You got to bat for these guys who admit they so much as raped her. If a guy can get away with having sex with a woman, teen girl and no one would find out about it most men would do it. I read a report in a magazine several years ago where men where asked if they could have sex with a young girl of 13 or younger and no one would find out most all the men questioned said yes they would do it.. Many men, guys feel that sex is theirs for the taking. Give a girl some drugs or get her drunk, act like you like her and you pretty much have control.Sadly most men would not do the right thing. and isn't it interesting how many guys and men stick up for their fellow man..Hey what the heck it's only sex.. What does that hurt.. relax and take it. Is that what you are trying to say, by sticking up for those criminals..I just sit back and watch guys come to their defense over and over again.. I know how most guys are... I know first hand how men can be.. Now I'm the mom of a 24 yo daughter and just like beth I'd be beating doors down to find my daughter. and yes American need to stay away from Aruba. Those people have a way to tell their legal system that what they did by releasing these guys (monsters) is wrong.. I mean he admits to being alone with her, having sex with her, in-fact all three of them RAPED HER..I guess it's a mans world and you don't pay for that in Aruba.. Makes me sick... Beth we are praying for you and hoping that Men in this country and Aruba will stand up and tell all men that rape is wrong and a crime.. Prove me wrong Men.. Yell as loud as us women about this atrocity.. ( now in saying all that I said... I do know that there are some caring and unique men out there that are sickened but this case.. And in fact have gone to great lengths to help look for natalee..I aplaud you in your efforts..thank you.. Me personally Think that knowing that Paul van de sloots home was not searched at all, my gut has said for a long time that her body is on that property( maybe in a deep freezer.I don't know. but not finding even a speck of anything of natalees anywhere makes me think Paul knows where she is and in fact probably has her body hidden and I feel that pauls wife knows alot more than she's saying. I think they should let the parents of natalee have someone go in a search the heck out of that house.. Paul vds knows everything.. Amazing how Katrina hits and eron and daddy flee the country.. And I agree with dr. phil American need to stand up for this young girl and stay out of ARUBA.. AND TO THOSE GIVING BETH A HARD TIME... Please Stop and think of what you would feel like if this was your daughter missing.. I know I am going to get hate mail... Ok, if it means getting people riled up enough to bring more attention to this case... My prayer are with the family of Natalee... We all want answers...If you are not one of these men that I spoke of earlier, and you know who you are... Pat yourself on the back for being decent...
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