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January 11, 2007, 9:19 am PST
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Quote From: stewartsgirlI feel for Darby... I am a mother of three almost grown kids and am deviroced from their fathers. If the fathers had ever taken one of them there would of been no stopping me... I would of went to the ends of the earth and taken any legal or illegal action to get my child back. Both my two ex-husbands are dead beats that have choosen to not be apart of my kids life and I did have a fear that my youngest dad would try taking off with him sense his dad had done it to him but I can say with all honesty that I would of stopped at absolutly nothing to find him and bring my son home..
Darby-- I am not saing you should not learn to forgive your mother but don't take any of her excusses either.... She should of done more and needs to face the fact she gave up on you and start finding away to make that right and stop blaming others for her mistakes... When I was 30, my ex moved me to his mother and brothers - far away from my family and friends and we had a 1 year old daughter at the time. 19 years later, we got a divorce and my ex took my daughter even though we had joint custody. I tried to see her at my husband's brother's house but they would not let me see her or talk to her on the phone. I tried to see her at my mother in law's home but she called the police for trespassing. When I did hire a PI and got her phone number - she hung up on me. When she went to college, the college prevented me from emailing her. When she went for her masters, that university did let me email her and I forwarded money to her. I did get a favorable response back from her then but nothing since. My daughter is now 30 years old. I think of her everyday and miss her very much. My ex was a very controlling man and I know that he and his family have brain washed my daughter.
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