Quote From: susan876violence is mental abuse and for some Physical brutalizing. It destroys love,trust hope,positive.
It is physically torturing kids mentally& emotionally, often to an emotional breakdown.It is
accumulated spankings and burnout . If you were hit twice it would hurt your feelings. You can't get
affection starved kids in a well of pain, for years, that requires drugs to climb out if you just hurt peoples feelings. It is preventing survival emotionally (mental Abuse). It also causes Spousal etc.
I also keep seeing overkillout there. Hitting with hard objects. The consciousless relatives were
done that way. I'm glad you did alright but I have read thousands of similar descriptions and ruination. It is why people take the time to bring up details. But not everyone has the same experiences so they don't comprehend it. I am actually one of a trillion people. I am being attacked
by a vicious neighbor lately so I came on. But I think this site has people who had a better life
and they think i am rare or just exaggerating ,but I'm common out there. This show is inciting battering out there from rough people. Too a violent people. Ok I'm glad you all did better and can live in a safe world. But several generations showed me that It goes bad fast.Spanking is using the wrong word. The impact of violence is Mental abuse and emotional burnout that requires years to recover from often. That is why a lot of people are anti-violent.
Violence is physically,mentally & emotionally tramatizing at all levels. There are longterm effects but a lot of children are in nonsurvival mode by 3. Hard object hitters who often brutalize and try to scare litterally to death drive to drugs,crime,rape, & murder. Our grandparents had that group.
The fallout went for years. The control wasn't much at such a high cost. At the lowest level I saw
spousal,screaming, destroyed people and out of control people. So I have trouble with anyone who thinks you are hurting kids feelings. I am totally anti-violence. I am seeing a lot of hard hitters concerned with scaring children to death hitting their bones and too excess on & on. From the Mid-west or South maybe. They attack other adults like Hitlers. It is the reason I came on a little too strong. Everyone lives in different worlds, some better than others, but violence is a gateway drug
to powermad addictive destruction. And all emotion destruction is surpressed by violence for years.
