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January 13, 2007, 3:09 pm PST
applause
Quote From: joycers54I watched the first show and saw how Enza acted and I saw how the mother acted too. I think there are many hidden problems in the relationship between mother and daughter. I think the mother brought many men to her home and her daughter stood on the side lines watching. The daughter seems to be repeating what her mother has done in the past. I was a single mom with sons between the ages of 6-8 and I NEVER brought men home. I never dated. My main concern was the welfare of my sons! I devoted and sacrificed for my sons and it paid off well. They are both awesome providers, husbands and fathers in their families. I know people make mistakes in their lives and sadly to say the children pick up on it and it's sometimes carried with them for the rest of their lives until someone steps in (like Dr. Phil) to help and to teach the parent and child. I hope both daughter, mother AND grandmother will learn a lot and will all pull out of this mess! Again, Enza needs to stand back and mind her own business! She is doing an injustice to the daughter by her pent up anger and harsh words towards the daughter's mother! May God Bless Them! I applaude you as a single mother of 2 boys....my husband was raised by a single mother and he is also a great father and provider. I agree with you in the aspect that the mother has created this situation on herself that she has chosen to bring men in and out of her home and the daughter unfortunatley thinks that it is ok. On the other hand the mother is emotionally damged by something!! Not sure what but it is ther....she would not be drinking the way she is or allowing men to come in and out the way she does unless she was broken inside herself. I truley feel that this woman needs to be healed herself in order for her to help her daughter. I am a mother of a 12 yr old girl and I am a recovering alcholic and somehow I thought it was ok for so many years. This aunt does not need to be in this house unless she is willing to put the battle gear and allow her self to be compassionate to this woman and actually try and help her become a better person and mom. But non the less I think that it is wonderful that your sons are so great!!!!!
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