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September 26, 2005, 4:34 pm PDT

School Issues

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I am a 14 year old Freshman in high school and my mom is very controlling towards my whole family, everyone is sick of her. we usually just put up with it and roll our eyes. but , recently things have gotten out of hand. You see, I want to attend this college prep course called AVID. my dad thinks its wonderful, but, my mother doesn't think its necessary to recieve an education when I could just stay home and clean all day. All my teachers and councelers are being really flexible in helping me fit AVID into my schedule. any ideas to help convince my mother to let me stay in AVID?
I am an AVID teacher. The program is a wonderful opportunity for teens who are college bound. They will get exposure to things beyond the normal curriculum. There is service work involved, college campus trips, work experience trips, and speakers who share with students their experience and how college helped them get where they are today. It is an excellent course!
 
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September 29, 2005, 6:25 am PDT

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I am a 14 year old Freshman in high school and my mom is very controlling towards my whole family, everyone is sick of her. we usually just put up with it and roll our eyes. but , recently things have gotten out of hand. You see, I want to attend this college prep course called AVID. my dad thinks its wonderful, but, my mother doesn't think its necessary to recieve an education when I could just stay home and clean all day. All my teachers and councelers are being really flexible in helping me fit AVID into my schedule. any ideas to help convince my mother to let me stay in AVID?
I think your on the right track if you want to go to college then thats great most parents would be thrilled for you im sorry to hear your moms not happy about your decission but I think your doing what YOU want to and your making a WISE decission  its GREAT keep up the good work and I wish you well in the near future take care Lori
 
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October 9, 2005, 11:44 am PDT

Ask your mom what problem she has with AVID?

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I am a 14 year old Freshman in high school and my mom is very controlling towards my whole family, everyone is sick of her. we usually just put up with it and roll our eyes. but , recently things have gotten out of hand. You see, I want to attend this college prep course called AVID. my dad thinks its wonderful, but, my mother doesn't think its necessary to recieve an education when I could just stay home and clean all day. All my teachers and councelers are being really flexible in helping me fit AVID into my schedule. any ideas to help convince my mother to let me stay in AVID?

I would ask your mom a directly question of why she would want to pull you from AVID?  This would give you the option to overcome any objections she has.  I have a BA but am a stay at home mom.  I have heard the arguement many timesabout getting a degree and then staying home.  I have told people that I look at it like life insurance.  It is there to help me get a better job and get a job quicker than without a degree if I ever need a job.  We can't be sure what life will throw at us and if my husband gets hurt or something where he can't work bills will not just stop.  Try to figure out how to steer the conversation to where she would WANT you to take this course.  Even if you need to work it to where she would take pride in the fact that she has a daughter smart enough to be allowed into this course. 

  

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