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January 20, 2007, 6:21 pm PST

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I can't wait to see the show Monday.   I am curious to know what Enza  is apologizing for;  her behavior on the show, her ongoing daming Kim to Alex,  brainwashing Alex to continue hating her mom, or finally Enza admitting that she has not been there for Alex as an Aunt should be instead of creating more issues and drama for Alex.  It is so obvious that Enza uses Alex to get back at Kim for whatever reasons, and that sickens me.    Actions speak louder than words and if  Enza is sincere, she'll start with a great big apology to Alex for not being there for her in the past 4 years or more and step up and start doing more positive things with her and stop the elementary bullshit with Alex,  admit that she has mishandled things about Kim and said things about  Kim to Alex that was not appropriate for her to talk about with Alex. 

 

 Hopefully Kim can see past Enza being there and step up and admit to her real issues for the sake of her family.  I feel as long as Enza is there, Kim will continue to hold back and not be as honest with Dr. Phil and herself as she needs to be to receive the proper help!!  C'mon Kim noone cares what Enza says or thinks about you, but we do care about what you will sacrifice for your own child to get her help.  If Kim is sincere she will do what it takes for her daughter!!  We are praying for you Kim so please do the right thing.  Kim, think of it this way Enza is there for your entertainment, ignore her or just laugh at her she is a fooooool!!!!   Praying for Alex!!  We all should pray for Enza as well she needs some serious help!!      Curious to see what happens!!!

I cant agree with u more.. Enza is a real piece of work! She wants to be a hereo in Alex's eyes but shes just thinkin about herself and tearing alex apart inside. And whos the only 1 suffering? Correct ALEX
 
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January 20, 2007, 6:42 pm PST

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I can't wait to see the show Monday.   I am curious to know what Enza  is apologizing for;  her behavior on the show, her ongoing daming Kim to Alex,  brainwashing Alex to continue hating her mom, or finally Enza admitting that she has not been there for Alex as an Aunt should be instead of creating more issues and drama for Alex.  It is so obvious that Enza uses Alex to get back at Kim for whatever reasons, and that sickens me.    Actions speak louder than words and if  Enza is sincere, she'll start with a great big apology to Alex for not being there for her in the past 4 years or more and step up and start doing more positive things with her and stop the elementary bullshit with Alex,  admit that she has mishandled things about Kim and said things about  Kim to Alex that was not appropriate for her to talk about with Alex. 

 

 Hopefully Kim can see past Enza being there and step up and admit to her real issues for the sake of her family.  I feel as long as Enza is there, Kim will continue to hold back and not be as honest with Dr. Phil and herself as she needs to be to receive the proper help!!  C'mon Kim noone cares what Enza says or thinks about you, but we do care about what you will sacrifice for your own child to get her help.  If Kim is sincere she will do what it takes for her daughter!!  We are praying for you Kim so please do the right thing.  Kim, think of it this way Enza is there for your entertainment, ignore her or just laugh at her she is a fooooool!!!!   Praying for Alex!!  We all should pray for Enza as well she needs some serious help!!      Curious to see what happens!!!

I am sad because I believe the mother means well as well as the Aunt and they have to come to a united front to help Alex out. Fighting in front of her is wrong it makes her feel she has to chose. The Aunt is wrong for talking bad about the mother even if it is true. The only way she will receive help is if they are united. Not fight back and forth. They have to agree to disagree and come together for Alex. If the mother was wrong in her past and IF she is truely trying to change to help her daughter then the Aunt has to relize that. The past is the past and the present is the present.
 
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January 22, 2007, 4:27 pm PST

Toxious Enza

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I can't wait to see the show Monday.   I am curious to know what Enza  is apologizing for;  her behavior on the show, her ongoing daming Kim to Alex,  brainwashing Alex to continue hating her mom, or finally Enza admitting that she has not been there for Alex as an Aunt should be instead of creating more issues and drama for Alex.  It is so obvious that Enza uses Alex to get back at Kim for whatever reasons, and that sickens me.    Actions speak louder than words and if  Enza is sincere, she'll start with a great big apology to Alex for not being there for her in the past 4 years or more and step up and start doing more positive things with her and stop the elementary bullshit with Alex,  admit that she has mishandled things about Kim and said things about  Kim to Alex that was not appropriate for her to talk about with Alex. 

 

 Hopefully Kim can see past Enza being there and step up and admit to her real issues for the sake of her family.  I feel as long as Enza is there, Kim will continue to hold back and not be as honest with Dr. Phil and herself as she needs to be to receive the proper help!!  C'mon Kim noone cares what Enza says or thinks about you, but we do care about what you will sacrifice for your own child to get her help.  If Kim is sincere she will do what it takes for her daughter!!  We are praying for you Kim so please do the right thing.  Kim, think of it this way Enza is there for your entertainment, ignore her or just laugh at her she is a fooooool!!!!   Praying for Alex!!  We all should pray for Enza as well she needs some serious help!!      Curious to see what happens!!!

I agree.  Now that Doctor Phil is removing Alex from the family hopefully she will get the help she needs - far away from her feuding relatives.  Enza is toxious and makes things worse by  trying to come between Alex and her mom.  She needs to go home and stay out of it.  As a caring Aunt, she should remove herself from the middle and remain an available listening ear for Alex. And if Alex should turn to her, she should listen and show concern but not put down the mother or try to come between them.  Alex needs positive support and caring not someone tearing downher mother.  Like Alex told the detective on the show, she is searching for love and someone to tell her they care.  Maybe if the mother and Aunt showed they cared more instead of fighting with each other, Alex would not have to look for men to provide her with affection.  Now that Alex is getting help, the mother should take this time to get some help for herself and her alcohol problems.  Grandmother needs to move out of the house.  Hopefully, Alex will someday return to a home with a loving sober more mature and affectionate mother.  And as a bonus she will hopefully have caring and concerned family (grandmother and Aunt) to offer support - not drame and trauma to her life.  Alex cannot return to the current toxic environment as it is now.
 
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January 22, 2007, 10:47 pm PST

Dr. Phil, show Enza the door!

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I can't wait to see the show Monday.   I am curious to know what Enza  is apologizing for;  her behavior on the show, her ongoing daming Kim to Alex,  brainwashing Alex to continue hating her mom, or finally Enza admitting that she has not been there for Alex as an Aunt should be instead of creating more issues and drama for Alex.  It is so obvious that Enza uses Alex to get back at Kim for whatever reasons, and that sickens me.    Actions speak louder than words and if  Enza is sincere, she'll start with a great big apology to Alex for not being there for her in the past 4 years or more and step up and start doing more positive things with her and stop the elementary bullshit with Alex,  admit that she has mishandled things about Kim and said things about  Kim to Alex that was not appropriate for her to talk about with Alex. 

 

 Hopefully Kim can see past Enza being there and step up and admit to her real issues for the sake of her family.  I feel as long as Enza is there, Kim will continue to hold back and not be as honest with Dr. Phil and herself as she needs to be to receive the proper help!!  C'mon Kim noone cares what Enza says or thinks about you, but we do care about what you will sacrifice for your own child to get her help.  If Kim is sincere she will do what it takes for her daughter!!  We are praying for you Kim so please do the right thing.  Kim, think of it this way Enza is there for your entertainment, ignore her or just laugh at her she is a fooooool!!!!   Praying for Alex!!  We all should pray for Enza as well she needs some serious help!!      Curious to see what happens!!!

 

Enza really doesn't show concern for Alex, she has her own agenda.  Alex needs her mother and grandmother, not a buddy as Enza is trying to be!  Enza is battling to control the entire situation and everyone involved.   What's her motive in coming between Alex and Kim?  REGARDLESS..... of Kim's parenting skills and Enza's opinion, she is the mother.... not Enza. Most of us only have one mother and Alex and Kim need each other to heal (without negative outside influence).  Enza wants to destroy and cause division, how sad.  Her presence is distructive for Kim, Alex, and Jeanette.  Teen daughters also need a father figure in their life....so where is her father?  Can Enza explain where her brother is, and shouldn't she  blame him equally and point the finger at him as well?  I only watched one hour of the show and Enza had me frazzled.  They need to keep her away from Kim as well....Enza is nothing more than a know it all, BULLY!

 


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