Quote From: wifebinotnowWhen a transsexual or transgender person is psychologically examined and the doctor's and psychiatric staff deem this person to be a good candidate for GRS (Gender Reassignment Surgery) or SRS (Sexual Resassignment Surgery) and give the go-ahead then that person lives their lives in their new identity then one day wakes up and says to themselves "okay, I've tried this, now I want to try something different" and goes back to some other form they had before the surgeries THIS does not mean that the person isn't transgender or transsexual.
Those people who say they have to remain that way for the rest of the lives are telling people what to do. You don't want know one telling you what to do. Why are you telling them what to do?
Is it am embarassment to the TG/TS community to have these people in their community? I think it is because these people have gone all the way, then decided "eh" this isn't for me, and do not contemplate suicide at all.
Jerry Leach was called a sex-addict. Have you seen the TS/TG people on the porno sites? The MTFs, the FTMs, who are on the web with their sexual addictive pornography for all of us to see?
At least Jerry Leach of www.realityresources.com doesn't have a porno on the net for everybody to see. And those of you who say he's a former sex-addict, who are you to judge him?
I suppose you're getting your surgeries and "what not" to live as a priest, monk, or nun? I don't think so. Don't play coy with me. Oh sure, there are those that will NEVER have sex in their new roles, and it isn't because they choose NOT to. Nobody wants to have sex with them. That's the deal some get. Oh well, at least they CAN live in the chosen gender of their choice.
Who says that their is only two genders? Male and Female. We obviously have established that someone thinks God made Adam and Eve, and Steve. What if God made Adam, Eve, Steve, and Miss Thang? so? or Mr. Butcho?
Don't sit there and tell the world that I'm being mean, abusive, and act like a victim. You know full well what you are doing and the reason you are doing what you are doing. Whatever you tell those doctors, your family, friends, etc. is one thing, but YOU know deep down inside the real reason you're doing this. And we don't have to know. That's YOUR secret. Like Superman, or the Green Arrow. They have secrets about who they are and they are smart on letting people know that are close to them.
You may come in here and say that your experience is different than mine. DUH. Of course is it. But, don't tell me that your relationship is any better because of your gender change or sexual change. It's still you? And if you're in a relationship with someone who loves you, I hope you are there for them when THEY decide to do something different with their lives, just LIKE YOU DID.
Have a nice day
I have read and re read your post. I don't understand where you stand. It sounds as if you are very angry and upset, about what though?
Are you for or against transsexuals? What is your gripe?
What does porn have to do with anything? There are plenty of heterosexual porn stars....
Jerry Leach was a sex addict, that is a fact, he himself admits it. Who is judgeing? The problem I have with him, is he thinks he can save transsexuals. We dont need saving, all we need is respect and to be left be.
I don't believe there are just two genders, I know there is a wide continuum and spectrum. You know full well what we are doing? What are you talking about. The surgeries we get have absolutely nothing to do about sex. Yes we have sex of coarse, we are all sexual beings, kid you not.
I dont get your post or what you are ranting about, but have a nice day as well.
Mark Angelo