Quote From: ceildh1You poor woman, that's tough.
Sounds like your SIL and husband BOTH have some real issues that need to be addressed.
Your SIL is a spoiled brat ? But the sad thing about people like that is they will never find real happiness, that's why they feel the need to try and make everyone else look and feel bad about themselves, your husband is giving into that BIG TIME by even considering to move, have you talked to him about it, I mean a real heart to heart, maybe he feels like he's failed you because he can't give you what she has ( men can be strange that way, sorry guys).
As for her parents, that's their choice but sadly when they're gone, their poor Baby Girl will have to learn to look after herself, and that will be her wake up call.
But you ned to talk to him, and the reality is, he still may not have her lifestyle when you move, if anything it might get worse, don't just follow3 him blindly across the country, you have a life too.
There hasn't been a lot of clear thinking in his family for a long time. Thank you for your input - we are going to have the talk tonight. Both of us need to make peace with the larger issue of leaving our grown child and grandchild behind.
