Domestic violence does not necessarily consist of physical abuse. Emotional & psychological abuse fall under domestic violence as well, and these types of abuse can be just as damaging as the other forms. I have not once heard Dr. Phil mention the words 'domestic violence' in the course of this episode. I believe that in naming the situation for what it is can help a person better understand their circumstances and better understand what their options are in the process. Again, extreme jealousy & controlling behavior are elements of an abusive relationship. You can go for counseling in many cities, for free, by contacting a domestic violence agency. Again, emtional, mental, and finanacial abuse all fall under this category. It is too bad that Dr. Phil did not acknowledge this, as he missed a very vital element of assessing the first relationship on this show.
