Replies to '07/03 Big Love'

i am a big woman,weighing over 350 lbs., and for a long time i thought i couldn't find anyone that wanted someone my size. But i found out there are men out there who like women my size. My boyfriend likes me the way i am and doesn't want me to lose weight but he knows i have to lose weight for health reasons . i have arthritis in all my joints and am losing weight so i won't end up in a  wheelchair. i worry everyday that if i lose too much weight that i might lose him but this is something i have to do for me. if someone cares or loves you it shouldn't matter whether you are big or small. to me it's what's inside that should count and not your body size. women should do what is best for them and if their husbands or boyfriends can't except that then , in my opinion, that makes them very selfish and shallow.