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February 2, 2007, 2:00 am PST
02/02 A Difficult Reunion – Part 2
Quote From: stephani1I don't beleive it is always a good idea to confront our past history. Some things and some people are definately better left where they belong. This girl will never truly get what she wants from her Father, no matter how well prepared. She may think this will help her but sometimes I wish we would all put a little more effort into today and planning for tommorrow. I beleive in forgiveness for your own peace of mind but this man does not deserve a daughter let alone the opportunity to make some kind of amends. There is no amount of punishment that can help bring a Mother back, and I think she should focus on honouring her Mother by making the most out of her life, rather than trying to reason with a murderer. He doesn't desrve her time, he has done nothing to earn the right to be a Dad or heaven forbid a Grandfather. I'm biased I lost my Mother when I was 13 and I have not spoken with my Father in 20 years. No he did not kill my Mother but he is an angry, bitter and unkind man whom I learn't to forgive and leave behind a long time ago. I hope this young lady can do the same! I wish her every joy that I hope this show will help her find, but I don't beleive she will find hapiness here. I agree, I don't really think that anything good will come out of
this for her. Because I don't think her "father" helped her in the past
and he can not help her in the future. He can not be a mother to her in
her childhood all over again, because the damage has already been done.
I've met a lot of people in my life, and he is not one of those who can
take care of children, I don't think he can help her in the future
either.
I really feel this was just a chance for them to meet, let out some
emotions, and I seriously doubt anything meaningful will come out of
it. I've been through meetings like that myself way too many times, I
know what it's like.
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