Quote From: airca23thats really not fair for all of you to say i should want to met him and i get over it. why dont you try living your wole life with neither parents. One was dead and never coming back, and one was in prison because he killed her. I cant explain why i was feeling that way. i guess still after all he has done he my father. I;m not going to let anyone make ne fell bad for what I want and how i feel. SO untill you have been though what ive been though you should'nt say those things like; get over it, move on you, i dont understand whay she wants to met him. Since hte show i now know i dont want anything to do with because of what he did i just wanted to meet who my father was and maybe something. My life is better off without him.
You have to do what is right for YOU. Your decision may not be what someone else would do, but that doesn't mean it's not the right thing for you to do for yourself. I can't imagine living the life you have lived, the things you have gone through, etc. I hope you have found whatever it is you were looking for by doing this. I think you are a very strong person to have done this. Ignore all the negative that people have to say. A lot of people love to tear other people down. You did what you needed to do for yourself...to heal yourself, find closure, etc. I wish you every happiness life has to offer!!