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February 1, 2007, 10:19 pm PST

hey can u help me out plz?

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 I beleive that he needs to be in long term recovery, but he has been in  jail and may view any in program like jail, so maybe an outpatien  program would be best. This is such a traggic story and will not come easily together. The emotions of hate, love, fear, wanting, needing a father all are mixed up and have to be sorted out. I bet she wonders what others, family and friends could possibly think?  Like how could you even want to forgive him and call him Dad. I believe that only God could do those things for them and it seems like they both are reaching out to God fo quidance along with the help of Dr. Phil and his staff. God holds both the Father's and Daughters hearts in his hands and yet they have the free will to decide what to do wih all these emotions and if they will move forward. I think that the Father walking off stag was from the emence fear he felt the closer he go to how his actions affected his daughter. I pray for their healing. Sable
i got question for u.  The story last week got me wondering this more and more.  THe identity show last week got me wondering bout my own daughter.  She knows who she of course.  She now 6 and starting to develop in certain areas.  Especially lately i noticed when bathing her she starting to get breast tissue already.  I dont understand that bc i didnt start that early nor did my mom.  To answer one question u have-=NO she not over weight.   SHe typical height, weighty for her age.  I feed her normal diet like most preppy parents feed their kids.  She always eats everything on her plate and does drink at least one glass milk every day.  Could the factors be contributing to her hormones or could she just be entering puberty extra EXTRA?? early??  I did talk to to pediatrician bout  it and he didnt have much comment bout it.  Though he hasnt seen her since oct 06 so maybe in his mind she gain extra weight.  Which she didnt do.  She bout 4  1/2 feet tall and bout 60lbs.  Any ideas, suggestions??  My daughter has asked some questions regarding her developing lately and have no answers yet,.. i usually just change the subject to avoid the situation..  aANY TIPS FOR THIS  NEW MOM??
 
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February 1, 2007, 10:21 pm PST

hey can u help me out plz?

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 I beleive that he needs to be in long term recovery, but he has been in  jail and may view any in program like jail, so maybe an outpatien  program would be best. This is such a traggic story and will not come easily together. The emotions of hate, love, fear, wanting, needing a father all are mixed up and have to be sorted out. I bet she wonders what others, family and friends could possibly think?  Like how could you even want to forgive him and call him Dad. I believe that only God could do those things for them and it seems like they both are reaching out to God fo quidance along with the help of Dr. Phil and his staff. God holds both the Father's and Daughters hearts in his hands and yet they have the free will to decide what to do wih all these emotions and if they will move forward. I think that the Father walking off stag was from the emence fear he felt the closer he go to how his actions affected his daughter. I pray for their healing. Sable
weird to ask u this but she kinda subconscious bout her chest.  I told u bout this the other day and u responded. TY.  Should i always make sure she wearing 2 shirts all the time, especially in summer or wat?  LOL Do they even make bras for girls that age??  Remember she NOT over weidht  she 4 .5 ft tall 64lbs.  She 6.  Any tips, suggestions, ideas?? let me know, ty..
 
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February 1, 2007, 10:33 pm PST

Well said sldente

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 I beleive that he needs to be in long term recovery, but he has been in  jail and may view any in program like jail, so maybe an outpatien  program would be best. This is such a traggic story and will not come easily together. The emotions of hate, love, fear, wanting, needing a father all are mixed up and have to be sorted out. I bet she wonders what others, family and friends could possibly think?  Like how could you even want to forgive him and call him Dad. I believe that only God could do those things for them and it seems like they both are reaching out to God fo quidance along with the help of Dr. Phil and his staff. God holds both the Father's and Daughters hearts in his hands and yet they have the free will to decide what to do wih all these emotions and if they will move forward. I think that the Father walking off stag was from the emence fear he felt the closer he go to how his actions affected his daughter. I pray for their healing. Sable
Well said sldente!  Understanding addiction is the main thing if Erica wants any kind of relationship with her dad.  I applaud her for being strong and doing what she's dreamt of...but she needs to remember that he has a disease and not to mistreat him for what he did or didn't do.
 


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