Replies to '05/30 Pretty/Ugly'

After being moved to tears on Friday for Victoria I just knew that I had to post a message.  I think that Debi needs a little vacation to work on her mothering skills.  Flat out no questions asked this is abuse.  I think any judge that had this mother and a copy of this Dr. Phil show in front of him would have serious problems with his conscious if he placed a child back in this woman's custody.  The father must see that a problem exist if  Victoria is the one being sent to his house all the time and children do talk.  I am sure that this problem has been discussed in some fashion.  If anyone that is reading this or if the mother herself is reading this I am begging you to utilize the help that is out there for you.  Our children are a gift to us and they are the future.  Abusing them emotionally is just as bad as physically.  The scars are deeper and just as hard  to heal if not harder.  Take the time you need to correct the situation and return to the children the mother they deserve. Sisters develope a special bond.  It is possible that if you dont change they both will hold a grudge against you that you cant break. I am 30yrs old so I am old enough to process my feeling for they really are. I feel the pain that is inflicted on my sister and vice versa.  After hanging on to your every word I see that the biggest thing that Victoria has that is disfiguring her is her mother. Don't let these children continue on a vicous and destructive path. You took the initial step now just jump.  I will pray for you and your children.