Quote From: anonupCheri made a comment like "They make you feel...that there is nobody else out there....nobody's gonna want you..."
Just suppose that's true - that getting out of that relationship means that you will be on your own.
SO WHAT? Why wouldn't you rather be alone than be with someone like that? I don't get that at all!
I get so frustrated with woman who can think so little of themselves - there are so many great men out there and I feel that if you continue to play by the same rules of their game the results are going to be the same. That just about goes with my way of life. Whatever you put into it, thats what you'll get out of it.
My husband is recovering alcoholic - he is a true believer in the 12 step program, I can remember that he told me that his first wife hated that he wanted to get help - she was the enabler of the family, he force her to go to al-anon. It was a program that help her get real with herself, once he started to see a better life for himself - she went nuts, so he realized that she was not moving in the same direction he was. So they divorced. That is what these woman should do - get themselves the help and then they will realize that they don;t need these fools, and it will give their children a chance that they deserve.
