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angry
April 26, 2007, 12:08 pm PDT

wish someone would listen

Quote From: marielle477

Hello.

I have been working for a company for the past 9 years, and at first it was great. Then I switched positions within the company and thats when I met the worst workplace bully.

He is so cruel to everyone around him, but the worst thing about it is that he will get you alone and then just verbally abuse you and treat you like crap. There are a number of us who have expressed great concern to our Manager about this person (who is a supervisor) and the Manager tells us that he doesn't  believe us. The Manager seems to think that this bully on a huge power trip walks on water, and we couldn't figure out why. Then we found out that this certain bully does half of the Manager's work for him, so they seem to have a "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" kind of deal.

Just recently, a fellow employee who has been the recipient of the majority of this bully's terror had enough and went to a union representative and filed harassment against him. There were a few of us around when the bully was disrespecting and treating this certain employee like total garbage, and we were asked to write witness statements.

I was one of these witnesses, and I wrote a statement attesting to what I had seen. A couple of days after the harassment charge was filed, fellow co-workers were coming up to me and the employee who filed the charge and telling us things that the Manager and the Supervisor/bully were spreading around the company - things basically trying to discredit us and make us look bad, and all of these rumors are so untrue and vicious.

So far we have heard NOTHING about the harassment charge and what this company plans to do and has the responsibility to do about the fact that this employee, me, and many, many other employees are being harassed and bullied at work by this individual.

This supervisor needs to be terminated, this is NOT AN ISOLATED INCIDENT.

PLEASE, CAN SOMEONE OFFER ME SOME ADVICE ON HOW I CAN GET SOMEONE TO LISTEN????

What is it with the power trips these people get on?  I was accused of giving the impression I feel the staff is out to get me...um, no...just one person.  Why can't that be seen? Because they simply cannot do that. If they did say, yes, there is a problem, then they open themselves up to a lawsuit for not doing something sooner. If they say there is no problem, they have to scramble to prove you are the problem..

 

Get out while you can, and find another job.  Life is the longest thing you do...make it count.

 
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blank
May 27, 2007, 4:03 pm PDT

There is more than one way to skin a cat!

Quote From: marielle477

Hello.

I have been working for a company for the past 9 years, and at first it was great. Then I switched positions within the company and thats when I met the worst workplace bully.

He is so cruel to everyone around him, but the worst thing about it is that he will get you alone and then just verbally abuse you and treat you like crap. There are a number of us who have expressed great concern to our Manager about this person (who is a supervisor) and the Manager tells us that he doesn't  believe us. The Manager seems to think that this bully on a huge power trip walks on water, and we couldn't figure out why. Then we found out that this certain bully does half of the Manager's work for him, so they seem to have a "you scratch my back, I'll scratch yours" kind of deal.

Just recently, a fellow employee who has been the recipient of the majority of this bully's terror had enough and went to a union representative and filed harassment against him. There were a few of us around when the bully was disrespecting and treating this certain employee like total garbage, and we were asked to write witness statements.

I was one of these witnesses, and I wrote a statement attesting to what I had seen. A couple of days after the harassment charge was filed, fellow co-workers were coming up to me and the employee who filed the charge and telling us things that the Manager and the Supervisor/bully were spreading around the company - things basically trying to discredit us and make us look bad, and all of these rumors are so untrue and vicious.

So far we have heard NOTHING about the harassment charge and what this company plans to do and has the responsibility to do about the fact that this employee, me, and many, many other employees are being harassed and bullied at work by this individual.

This supervisor needs to be terminated, this is NOT AN ISOLATED INCIDENT.

PLEASE, CAN SOMEONE OFFER ME SOME ADVICE ON HOW I CAN GET SOMEONE TO LISTEN????

One day recently, I was in another division at my workplace to coordinate efforts in my investigation.  A supervisor of that division was in a closed office yelling so loudly that it distracted us to the point that we could not address the business at hand.  This was not the first incident and I could see that the other coworkers were clearly intimidated by this abusive conduct and I was told they were afraid to say anything about it.  This was not the first time.  In my field, self-control and professionalism are key.  I reported this to my supervisor and informed her that I would be contacting human resources to file a formal complaint.  I documented the behavior in writing and also wrote that  expected something to be done about this unacceptable, unprofessional conduct.  I followed up on the complaint a week later and was informed that this person was dealt with from his supervisor.  I was happy to hear from the staff in that department that immediately after the date of my complaint, his disposition made a drastic change.  What you are dealing with is not only a hostile work environment, but also retaliation from your supervisor because of the complaint. Document. Get satements. This might have become a federal issue. The employer is ultimately responsible for allowing this behavior to continue.
 


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