Quote From: cayla_snfThat seems like SO severe. Im only 14 and i know i dont know everything. But not letting your kids IM their friends or going to a chat room? Personally, I think that as long as they're talking to their friends only then whats the big deal? Alot of it is that kids just wanna fit in. Like Myspace, we just wanna have what all our friends do. Its a cool way to keep in touch with them. And truthfully, when my mom gets all mad and sets up these rules, NO this, NO that before I even do anything it makes me feel paranoid and like, almost as if she doesnt understand where im coming from. Now the webcams, I agree with that. But as long as you know the site your kid is on and you know they're talking to their friends ONLY I dont see the problem Plus dont critisize them for asking for a myspace, xanga, friendster, etc. But I do agree with the computer in the living room, checking out what they're looking at, monitoring their friend lists, and such. I just think the absolutely NO internet thing is drastic. I hope this doesnt sound like a typical 14 year old complaining and whining. Im just being honest on how some kids view it.
Cayla, you sound like an intelligent, sensitive young lady.
You presented your case wonderfully and in no way did you sound like you were complaining or whining.
Being a mom myself, I can understand your frustration at your mother. However, she is only concerned for you and your well being, as you already know. :) Have you told your mother in a calm voice your feelings about her not understanding you? I ask this because I, like all mother bears get very (and justifiably) protective where my Cubcake is concerned.
