Quote From: shemac3WOW!! I have read all of your posted messages Thomas and watched you on the show. You are lashing out at anyone who has an opinion on your behavior and YOU are the one who can not take ANY constructive criticism!! You asked Dr. Phil, "what could YOU possibly know since you never had my problem?" Well, who do you think helps people with these problems??? They are the professionals, not the other FLASHERS of this world. You didn't want to hear ANY criticism and was quick to argue continuously. You even said you have NO REGRET for your past behavior.....that really surprised me. (you said you had some remorse for hurting others but no regrets...WHAT THE HECK??) You went to Dr. Phil supposedly to have him help you tell your girlfriend about your past behavior and MAYBE help others with their obsession. You are obviously trying to convince people that you are totally 'lifted' from this obsession.....Why do you find such a need to convince people of that? I found you to be a very angry man. I really do pray that you get better. :(
Why? First of all you need to understand that if you do not have this type of problem, then you are not who I am trying to reach. It should be obvious why it is important to me to convince people. Because if they hear and believe it, maybe they too will stop the behavior and this will prevent someone out there from being victimized. Is that not something you think is important. Preventing someone from being victimized? Yes I still become angry sometimes, and I curse sometimes and I smoke cigarettes sometimes, but what does that have to do with the obsession that was supposed to be the topic here? You saw me get angry and define me as "an angry man". Does that mean that you never get angry? And if you have ever gotten angry, are you also an "angry man"? I never said "Hey, I don't have that obsession anymore and as a result of that I never become angry as well, nor do have any other defects of character. Stop connecting the dots. One issue has nothing to do with the other. Anger is anger, it is not exhibitionism. I apologize that you don't understand that. God bless you.
