And I don't disagree that abuse is a cycle or that it's passed down or it comes from trauma but as an adult in this day & age abuse isn't exactly something that people no longer talk about. I think once we see that we're out of control that it's up to deal with it. If we already have a child or children & we see we're having a problem with anger then I think that it's our duty to the kids to break the cycle. If I realized I had a drinking problem I'd feel the same way. The kids must be protect & that's even from their parent until they've worked threough whatever had caused it or it's under control. I do believe that it could probably caused by trauma though.
Hello momakababe,
I certainly see that child abuse is being talked about more as a society. But there are still hidden secrets in some families. I found out from a neighbor last year and from a friend that they were sexually abused by their brothers. The children must be protected at all costs. In some situations, persons other than parents have to step in to help the children.
