Replies to '08/03 Caught in the Act'

I don't understand how any woman with respect for herself, something all women should place first in their life, stay with a man who has cheated on her.  My ex-husband was a (please excuse the expression) slut.  He cheated on me the night before we got married, even, but I thought he'd stop when we were married...........NOT.  I never caught him in the act but people constantly told me about him being with this person or that person.  Funny how many men even, came to me and asked if I thought he would ever have sex with men.  It caused me to wonder why they would ask, after a while I realized why.  I gave him the benefit of the doubt for over ten years until one day he got drunk and broke down crying and told me everything, from the fact that he had sex with men, women, his neices, even got his own half sister pregnant.   I should have left him much earlier in the marriage, it would have saved me a whole lot of money.  I was his third wife, I heard he married again after me, and divorced again and married again.  I don't mind that he and I are not together, I have my self-respect and my sanity.  I have a great life that I've made for myself all on my own.  I've been single now for over 20 years and am loving it.  I've been retired since December 31, 2004, financially secure by my own efforts and life is a blast.  I've worked hard to get to where I am now but my credit score, which I got to on my own, is a whopping 797!  YAHOO.  I'm free to do anything I want.