Replies to 'Relationship Myths'

   My h is lazy He won't help me around the house he uses the excuss that it is his day off.He won't help out unless I make him or I get mad.we have three kids he says he does like to disapline cause he is not the fatherly type.When we are around frinds or his family his is the perfect fother and h.His family think he is the perfect father and give him all the credit for rasing the kids and Iam looked at as if I do nothing when I am doing it all.all he does is work, pay bill.eat. sleep and drive the kids arond if I make him. its like I am dragging him on a rope.I have on one  acation told him that if he doesn't start acting like a father and h I am going to leave him when the kids are gone.All he says is yea right you don't have the guts.not one would wont you.When I try to talk to him about his no suppert problem he make me feel like it my fault im piking on him he has done nothing wrong.and he looks at me as if he has no idea why this should upset me shrugs and says oh well.I don't understand.and tells me about his moms and dads perfect marrage even though his dad died of old age when he was a small child.He wants me  to get a full time job I want a part time on he said that he won't help I know he wont he never did before when I worked full time.just spouting off to day.furustrated.so am I right in getting just a part time one.