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March 17, 2007, 4:27 am PDT
Dont weigh yourself
Quote From: swchick Some more recent research has indicated that there are better
meds to treat the brain imbalance seen in women with anorexia nervoso
that have been used in the past. It seems anorexics, either from
a genetic susceptibility triggered by "regular" dieting, or as a
result of the disease, have an imbalance of brain chemicals that make
the desire to keep getting the rewards of losing weight a compulsive
activity. Medicine might help take away the compulsion to see
those numbers keep dropping "perfectly", and keep you from
killing yourself as a side-effect of that perfection.
Funny you should bring up the race discrepancy. It isn't true
that only white girls get anorexia nervosa or other eating disorders,
in fact, eating disorders are on the rise among blacks; just
check out xanga if you have any dougts asbout that. . In very
general terms, having some "jelly" is more accepted or desireable
in that culture, and being too thin can make a person the object
of fun or even insults. ("Some day some man might take you, skinny legs
and all").
In fact, I got giggled at by some ( and I'm not being sarcastic,
here) charming young black women at Express the other
day. When I came out to the three way in slim
cut pants and checked out my rear, the young women seated in the
waiting area started to giggle, amazed at the skinny white girl (me)
who thinks being a coat hanger is cute. I looked pretty good, but
to them my slim profile is a defect. They weren't mean spirited
about it, but it was pretty clear that they were laughing because
of the differences in culture of white and black. If you get on the scale you are hurting yourself more. I repeatedly got on a scale and had the same feeling that you were but this therapist told me that it was not good to do this that it just fed the addiction that is what it is. an addiction. The scale is your enemy until you get control of the disease. You have to get control of it and stop letting it control you. People never are fully recovered I haven't. I'm not abusing myself but that doesn't mean that when i put on my clothes that i don't feel uncomfortable sometimes, but I look at myself and tell myself that I am a beautiful person and that I am needed here to be with my son and my husband. Look for the root of the problem. Look back at the first time you ever started this and what happened and what you first felt. most of the time that is where the problem lies. either with abuse and neglect or some other trauma in your life. Tell yourself every morning when you wake up that you will live and you will get better. You are worth it no matter what has been said or done. Seek help from a friend or loved one and a professional. Good luck. Write me anytime.
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