Replies to '08/03 Caught in the Act'

 I think the easiest way to answer whether to trust a cheater not to cheat again or not is to know the answer to why it happened. For example if he has self esteem problems and has filled that gap with the this affair then there has to be something else that helps him start to deal with those feelings for him not to go there again. Is it a lack of respect for your bond or for you? I think that could be the worst answer because its speaks of a persons true character which few people truly change. I think basically cause and efffect determine a repeat, and BTW a broken home can easily hold two parents, Best wishes I hope all turns out positive for you.