Quote From: afraidi cant for the life of me under stand how it becomes to enter so many peoples mind that when they get married they look upon the one they married as the same way one looks upon a new car purchase, and cant understand why thear spouses want out,its the same when the new car breaks down from a lack of up keep or from not changing the oil,so to people such as i mention i would say to tune up your marriage every 6 months it may keep it from breaking down like your new car will do if you dont keep it tuned up!!!
Most abusive and controlling men see their wives, lovers, girlfriends as PROPERTY, not as individuals and separate people, human beings.
Therein lies most of the problem.....their core belief system regarding women and most often their children, also.
