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September 20, 2005, 8:53 am PDT

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Dr. Phil has done several shows now with out of control kids and kids that throw tantrums, and he has given pretty much the same advice to all of the parents. I was wondering if there are any posters out there that have tried his suggestions on their own kids. Has anyone stripped their kids rooms and had success/failure? I know for a lot of parents it is hard to break the habit of yelling. It is hard to stay calm with a tantrum is going on. Anyone have a success story to share, on how Dr. Phil helped them change their parenting style? 

  


Rachel 

dr. phil always says it takes 1000 thata girl to take away 1 bad comment.  I think, i know cause it has worked on my youngest son, he was a temper tantrum taker, big time, along with all that involves.  don't forget, one on one, draw picture sing songs play video games(non violent). do what ever gives you that good loving quality time with your child as much as possibe, and your child will learn to be just as kind to the other people in his\her life, because you showed them how.
 
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September 20, 2005, 4:14 pm PDT

09/20 Little Mean Girls

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Dr. Phil has done several shows now with out of control kids and kids that throw tantrums, and he has given pretty much the same advice to all of the parents. I was wondering if there are any posters out there that have tried his suggestions on their own kids. Has anyone stripped their kids rooms and had success/failure? I know for a lot of parents it is hard to break the habit of yelling. It is hard to stay calm with a tantrum is going on. Anyone have a success story to share, on how Dr. Phil helped them change their parenting style? 

  


Rachel 

I have tried to lock my daughter in her bedroom and now she is petrified to be left alone.  She wont let me even go down stairs to get the mail without her going to.  Now I don't know what to do to built up that confidence to leave her alone with out the worry of a door being locked behind her.  At first she wouldn't even let me lock the front door because she was afraid of not getting out again.  Now when I punish her she screams don't lock the door like i was this monster who never let her out of her room.  I mean it was only for about 15 to 20 minutes that she was in there.  I love Dr. Phil and most things that he says, but this time it wasn't for our family.  Not everything he says is for every family.
 
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December 20, 2005, 10:23 pm PST

12/22 Little Mean Girls

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Dr. Phil has done several shows now with out of control kids and kids that throw tantrums, and he has given pretty much the same advice to all of the parents. I was wondering if there are any posters out there that have tried his suggestions on their own kids. Has anyone stripped their kids rooms and had success/failure? I know for a lot of parents it is hard to break the habit of yelling. It is hard to stay calm with a tantrum is going on. Anyone have a success story to share, on how Dr. Phil helped them change their parenting style? 

  


Rachel 

Just a quick reply:  

I have taken things away from my own if rules weren't complied with ect. It does work the key is consistency. If you say it, do it, mean it. A parent can't be wishy washy, kids need to know they can count on you as the adult to know the rules and to tell them. Kids do like boundaries even if some parents don't think kids do. If you give a kid a boundary they will know you love and care about them... I have worked for years with children who have been abused, or have some kind of disability, whether it learning, mental, or even physical along with your everyday child. They all like consistency and boundaries. Good luck. 

 
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December 22, 2005, 8:16 pm PST

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Quote From: rjbuckeye

Dr. Phil has done several shows now with out of control kids and kids that throw tantrums, and he has given pretty much the same advice to all of the parents. I was wondering if there are any posters out there that have tried his suggestions on their own kids. Has anyone stripped their kids rooms and had success/failure? I know for a lot of parents it is hard to break the habit of yelling. It is hard to stay calm with a tantrum is going on. Anyone have a success story to share, on how Dr. Phil helped them change their parenting style? 

  


Rachel 

My child is older now and I never applied this method.  I do know a handful of parents who have tried it and said it works.  The child has to earn back all the stuff taken away.   

  

Interesting. 

 


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