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September 27, 2005, 6:42 pm PDT
My Adoption Story
Quote From: lonalea200 I am adopted and I would like to share with people some feelings. when you adopt your children out, make sure you send pictures and a letter for them to read at their conveniance. When they're ready. I was adaopted when I was a baby. My biological grandfather on my mothers side commited suicide and my biological father commited suicide. I have no pictures or anything to know them by. My life will never be complete because I can't even see what my father looked like. The rest of my biological family can't help or won't. So I am stuck not knowing. It is an empty void. More than you think. Please don't think that once you give us up that it is forever. With nothing, you make it forever. Please pass along pictures and stories whether they want to look at them or not. At least it would be there if they want to know. They can always throw the info. away. But if it is not there in the first place....
EF i adopted out a baby girl . she left the hospital before i did. i never seen her i couldnt if i had of i would of kept her and she would of had nothing. i did write to her and was told that it would be put in a folder for her to read if and when she wanted to. i did make a request of pictures of her when they took her home. i got two of them.. that was the last i ever seen of her . she died when she was sixteen years old. she commited sucide. i think it is a good ideal for photos to be sent both ways. to an agency, to send to the birth parents...
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