Quote From: hammond7I am a wife to a dominating husband. We have been together for almost 11 years,married for 3 years. When we met he was a womanizer. I do not know why I wound marring him in the first place. He is very controling. He brought me a flyer from work. He thought it was for self defence. It was actually for an empowerment class. He wanted me to throw it away. I told him no. I went to the class and have a new sence of control over myself. All this is because I finally asked him for a divorce. He wound up throwing something at my head, punching two holes in the bathroom door. I left him but unfortunately came back to him. I need to find a way out before he goes back to trying to control my life as well as the children.
We are not placed on this earth to be used, abused and controled by anyone. We deserve better. It time for us to stand up to these controlling spouses. I will be watching this episode to see what will come of some of these people and for some advice for myself.
Dear lady,
I hope you and the children take care of yourselves and please remain strong. Are you seeing a counsellor? I really think it would be to your advantage if you did. But i don't know what your husband would say about it, but then it's really up to you. Maybe he would go too if you would ask him to, or maybe you just want to get out of the marriage as you seem to have had enough. I watched my poor sister suffer at the hands of her bullying husband and it's broken my heart forever because she has accepted that its her lot in life. I would hate to see you end up the way she has. I'm sorry to say but i won't miss him when he's gone.
Feel free to email or write to me if you want,
Sincerely and with love, Lory
