Quote From: lilacmessNice to see you, too. I guess someone is going to have to suggest a topic before this board will really get going again, huh. Hmmm . . . I really don't have any complaints right now. My step-daughter has moved in with us this summer and things have changed dramatically. Sex, or how often we have sex, is just about the last thing on my mind these days . . . so my husband and I are getting along pretty well. Ha ha! Actually, I can't even remember the last time I wanted to have sex and he didn't want to as well. This used to be a be a big point of contention between us. It seems lately that our sex drives are pretty much in sync. How are things for you?
My boyfriend claims to suffer from ED and says he has absolutely no sexual desire. What I don't understand is if this is true (1) why won't he discuss it with his Dr? (2) why would he still read porn stories about incest on the internet and (3) why does every sexy woman on TV, emails or the internet make him smile and get some kind of remark from him?
A little back ground, he's 53, we've only attempted sex 4-5 times in the last 14 months and only once since his heart attack last June. He's completed cardio rehab, gets raving reports from the Dr's and returned to work full time last Sept. Everything about him seem to be happy and normal for a man except that we have absolutely no intimacy in our relationship and he doesn't seem to desire it as much as I do. I've tried talking to him and even wrote him a 2 page letter explaining my feelings and desires and still nothing. He just says he has no sexual desires....end of discussion. He won't listen long enough to hear my feelings and frankly I'm at a point that I'm considering giving up and moving on because I do have desires and needs and he's not able or not willing to provide them. I don't know what to do and I don't understand how he can say he has no sexual desire but still reads his porn and gets turned on when he sees a desireable picture on TV or the internet.
