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March 20, 2007, 12:03 am PDT
That's unacceptable
Quote From: palshannaWhen I married my husband (almost 4 years ago), he was the perfect boyfriend and I though our wedding night would be wonderful. As it turns out it was a nightmare. He was mad at my father for my dad making some harmless comment that my husband took totally out of context. then we had a separate reception for the people that wanted to drink. My husband got totally bombed, we then ended up at my sisters house for a barbecue and he continued to drink. He was then passed out on the couch so I got him up and got him in the car to go home. Half way down the block we forgot his shoes so I turned around to get them, he started screaming at me and calling me all kinds of names, jumped out of the car threw his cell phone at the car, put a dent in the car and would not get back in. So I left him (we were only 6 blocks from home at this point). I went home and he kept calling me on my cell phone and yelling at me how he didn't want to get married I was a b****, a c***, he threw his wedding ring and it got smashed by a passing car. He then got home and kept screaming at me until he passed out. The next morning he was apologetic and wanted to make it up to me, but nothing can make up for ruining a night that was suppose to be the happiest for both of us. I still do not let him live it down. I can relate to these couples. I am sorry, but I think it is unacceptable for men to call their wives the "b" word and especially the "c" word-especially that. If either one of my husbands called me that, I would of been on the phone to a lawyer and thrown their butts out. My son, he's such a jerk, married such a nice girl and he calls her all sorts of names, and I always yell at him. She's way too good for my son. I don't know where he gets off calling her names, and I always tell her to divorce him, but alas, she won't. She's in love, and she says she turns a deaf ear to it. Even if I was her age again, and I'm not that old, I still wouldn't like a guy or my husband calling me those names. Its unacceptable, and I don't know why its happening. I don't remember in the 70's men calling their wives that. But, then again, with the exception of my sociopathic/pathological lying first husband, the guys I hang around with and ended up marrying were a little bit better class of guys.
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