Replies to 'Depression'

awwwwwwwww girl you know i do want to say i am glad you can cry i know it is hard and tiring when you cry so much but i am glad of that.........  it's good for you so i know it gets frustrating when you can't stop but don't let that keep you from doing it.......  i wish i could just cry like that sometimes...

 

also it is a great thing that you two talked and sure it didn't go well but aleast you finally really really talked right?  I mean it hurt to talk and it not be well but think how much more you would hurt later if you would have never talked so even though you have negative results you made positive choices and well you should be proud of yourself for that so try to think i made some good decisions and they had painful results but atleast i faced it and i am going to continue to face it!!!  don't let go or stop now!!!

I'm sorry you are having a bad day. Sometimes Sweets marriages that fall apart can come back together if both people want it bad enough. When a couple get the space they get a chance to look at the good and the bad and see if it can be salvaged or not. Sometimes when a couple is in the middle of the turmoil neither can focus on anything but the storm. It is good you and your hubby are talking but Sweets you have to let him know what is going on with you and none of this is his fault he probably thinks he is behind your unhappiness. A marriage is a complicated thing even in the best of cases and even harder when one is dealing with depression too.  Maybe your hubby is waiting to hear you say how important he is to you and how much you want this relationship to work. Making time for him is essential and even though this message board is a great support system I try not to stay on too much when I am home with my hubby and spend that time with him. I know when I am home I don't like my hubby spending all his time on the computer when we can be talking. So Sweets keep talking and let him know what you are doing to make things better for You. I am sure if he married you he loves you but it can be really hard for our loved ones to see us so sad so this can sometimes put a big strain on a marriage. I send you many hugs and prayers for things to get better. People do not just fall out of love so your situation is not hopeless. My hubby has been in an apartment for a year now and we will be moving back together. We stayed friends through the whole separation. So instead of crying today Sweets write him a letter telling him how much he means to you and your marriage.