Quote From: tiffany_2007Why not be truthful to the person your about to marry? If you really cant be honest with them then you shouldn't marry them, as you can see its your ex wife not your current first wife. If you have to lie about looking at porn then you must think there is something wrong with it, or knowning your future spouse dislikes it and in turn you lie to them so you can keep doing it behind there back. This is why the divorce rate is so high, people think its okay to lie to the person they claim to love. But really its not love unless you can be truthful to the person your about to marry. And I don't mean you have to sit there and tell that person your whole life story for over time they will learn it. But you should be honest about the current stuff you are doing. Dont try and hide things unless your willing to give those things up after the marriage. That or marry a girl/guy and have them hate you after it when they learn what kind of things your into.
I personally don't think looking at a peep show on the net is cheating. But then I don't even allow my husband to go to strip clubs and I would be annoyed if he spent money on peep shows on the net. But then I have a husband that feels the same, and by the way he knew I how I felt before the marriage and I knew he liked his playboys, which don't bother me at all. So really talk before marriage or you only have yourself to blame.
You "don't allow" your husband to go to strip clubs?