Quote From: tiffany_2007I don't need to strip for him for that visual outlet lol. But I'm not a chick from the 50s either and gets undressed in the dark so my husband cant see me lol. Watching strippers isn't a need in life, it can be a enjoy meant for some but its not needed, porn isn't needed to be happy in life it can be fun and again enjoyed but its not needed.
I never said that men wanting to watch a woman (their wife or whomever) strip was a 'need'. But it is a desire and a fantasy that they do have. I also never said porn was a necessity either - but it is a desire that men have to see women naked doing sexual things that they want to see them do. All I meant by my post was that if you did strip for him regularly and often, then you would be fulfilling this desire that he has (that most men have). If you don't strip for him regularly and often, then you would not be fulfilling this desire that he has and he may seek to have that part of his desire fulfilled elsewhere. The key word here is MAY. Your husband may not seek this elsewhere and may be perfectly happy with you and the way your marriage is going sexually.
