Quote From: faith2718I'm 25, married and 7 months pregnant w/ my 2nd daughter! I made a mistake a month ago and bc of it my husband wants a divorce. I didnt cheat nor lie..what i did, is forgivable. I'm scared to be on my own with 2 small children. I'll be the only one here with them basically 24/7...no help what so ever!!! I've tried talkin but he wont have anything to do with it. He spends all his time online talkin to other women and if its the weekend hes not here, which again leave me with my daughter and no help. My husband promised we would make it and that he wouldnt do me like other men have in the past...and look, he is! My oldest daughter is his step daughter but hes always been there, so hes her daddy. I feel like things got a lil hard and its always easier to give up and walk away then it is to work it out. I dont know what to do...I dont knnow how i will manage a FT job, 2 small kids, and a home and still keep my sanity! How can men go through something like this and not show emotion??? I dont get it!!!!
Any advice?!!??
It sounds like your husband is looking for any excuse to get out of this marriage- he isn’t happy and “needs” to blame someone. He sounds immature and selfish! I know that you are scared to be a single mother of two, but you have more strength than you know. I know how you are feeling, I was pregnant with my second child when my husband left, too. I was very scared, but with help from family, I made it. There were lean times, but being independent and self sufficient was good for me. You will find that after you’ve overcome the fear, you will realize that you are better off without a man who only focuses on your faults and who didn’t want to be a true partner to you anyway. Keep your chin up, you can do this! My advice to you is to not beg him to stay, because that will only make him feel that he has more power over you- which is exactly what he wants. Let him go and see if the grass is greener somewhere else- he will find out that it isn’t.
