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Replies to '09/19 "Afraid of My Mom"'
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September 22, 2005, 12:38 am PDT
 Quote From: momakababe I mean you're pretty factual here yourself at the same time you're telling someone else not to state facts if they're not in the situation. Does that mean you ARE in the situation? You seem pretty aggressive in your posts here are you the mom? I have to say that it's scary to see your posts here looking like you're still angry at the same time you've been allowed to return to the home your kids are in. You'd mentioned in another post that the "heavens" & others were on the "mothers side". Do you see this as "their side" & "your side"? When you speak of how "they are at this time only helping the mother not the children and father and this is a month and 3 days out from when the show was even taped" you almost sound as though you're saying this in an defiant "ha ha they didn't get any help, I did" kind of way. Does it anger you that people have empathy for what your daughters have to endure? If they haven't gotten any counseling I should hope that you would seek that out for your children on your own. I can only imagine how much pain they've suffered.
If your husband actually knew what to do then why wasn't that the solution he would have just used instead of needing to go to Dr. Phil in the first place? & I mean if he could actually difuse the rage then wouldn't he just always do that or was he only able to control the situation when he was there? If he allowed the raging to go on while the scene was being taped so Dr. Phil could see what the mother is "really like" then why was the audience not told? Wouldn't that have been part of the information taken into consideration? If this was known & not spoken of what else was with held from the audience?
If it was thought to be a medical condition or part of one why wasn't that talked about on the show on the air? I mean if this is part of a bi-polar condition or depression then that should have been brought up even if it was just suspected by Dr. Phil, because there are others watching & waiting to see an out come so they too can perhaps identify or make a connection to their own problem & get treatment. If many Drs. had been sought out & it had gone undiagnosed or had been misdiagnosed then this is even more vital information to the public. While this segment was not just to help the people on the show it's also to reach others having the same problems. If they don't know the whole story then just like you they're going to be misdiagnosed or not diagnosed & what would the point be of airing it in the first place?
As I said in a prior post I do hope you all get the help you need but most importantly I hope for your daughters a home that is what a home is suppose to be and that's a safe haven. I imagine as the mother you'd want the same right?
By no means am I stating "haha" that the mother is getting help and the children and father are not. The mother was evaluated and so far no one has been. As far as the father, you hit it right on the nail..... he was only able to control the situation when he was there. As far as not telling the audience, well that you would have to talk to Dr Phil about because there were somethings that were not to be mentioned through the nifty contract they make you sign.
As far as the medical condition, if you look at the last segmint of the show he does say "this is a neuro problem that you can not control and your brain has shut down". No he never said what type of neuro problem but after being evaluated its a problem with the serotonin level in the brain. To give facts about it... a normal persons seritonin level is around 40-60. In this case it was in the 90's. Here are some facts about serotonin.....
Elevated 5HT (serotonin) levels: If you remember the part in the show where the mother named the medications she was on you will notice that Prozac was one of them. For the evaluation to be done most insurance companies will not pay for it. So it is all out of pocket expenses. If you have that much money to have the tests done.... more power to you. But some people do not.
As for the girls.... they are in a safe place. I hope this helps to understand the post I made earlier. |
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