I had some trouble with anger & rage as a young single mother of 2 boys. My menstrual cycle had been a mess right from the start. So if I wasn't having a period I was having PMS! I would go anywhere from 3 to 6 months at a time between periods!!! Can you imagine having PMS all the time? Could this woman be having hormonal problems?
I had to work 2 jobs to support us because we didn't get any help with child support. After my divorce their father had little to no contact with them, so I carried the whole load. I was sooo tired all the time,sick real often & horrible migraine headaches that would last days & some times over a week but I had to keep forging on.. sick or not I had to work. Needless to say I was a pretty crabby mother. But there was more fun & love than there was rage & anger. I did lots of fun stuff with my boys.
I had a hysterectomy when I was in my 30's. I was then put on hormone replacement medication. I felt like a different person. A few years later, during my second marriage which turned out real bad again,I had what you might call a breakdown & ended up in a mental health hospital for almost a month where I was diagnosed as severely depressed. I was put on antidepressant meds. Then a few years after THAT I was diagnosed with chronic fatigue immune disorder syndrome & fibromyalgia. I'm on a lot of medications for all these problems but at least I feel like a human being instead of the monster I had felt like. I haven't had a headache for years!! I'm thinking this woman may have some HORMONE problems. Has every avenue been checked out for her? Of course she would have be willing to seek these possibilities out & there might lye another problem ! If she really wants help she will have to be willing to have all these things checked out.
One thing that she mentioned was that she liked heavy metal music. All that music is about hate & violence. Could she be feeding off that ? Our environment has a lot to do with our personality.
