Quote From: rarybabyI'm in South Africa and eventually envy you guys for supporting each other. I NEED the Ultimate Weight Loss book by Dr Phil but can't find it anywhere here. I've very low self-esteem, I don't socialise because of my obesity. People often stare at me, I once went to a friend's party everyone was happy dancing instead I was sitting on the corner hiding myself in baggy clothes. We're about to go to our school reunion in 2006 I don't think that I will because I didn't get a chance to attend my PROM night as my mother couldn't afford to buy me that DRESS so I stayed at home instead. The reunion will be my last chance to wear it but not in this body. It's killing me. I wish somebody could help me not to give up. 
 
Keep up on supporting each other. 
Hay Rarybaby - I am in South Africa too !! What great news. I have a copy of the Ultimate Weight Solution book (even better news!) - which after searching for months, my Dad managed find for me. I am going to start reading it tonight! Where about in SA are you? How about we support each other!? Can't "Weight" for your reply! Maybe you will fit into that dress after all!!