Trust is good and necessary i dont disagree. but i can see you have never had that trust broken? Stop excusing a man and make him tow the line.. he would be furious if you flirted and looked with amazement at other men believe that.. he would go wanna smash that mans face in. lets not tote a double standard. and what is this about reaping the benifits of his naughty looks? So you gonna get to have some reward for yoru husband first lusting after another female? What if its her face he sees and not yours? come on . lets get real here. you want just crums or the whole cake? If a man is unfaithful its cause of his own selfish twisted mind. You cant run him into a womans arms.. trust is earned. if he looks then he didnt earn it. *looks with intent* its obvious when a man cant stop looking that he is interested in more then looking.
AMEN SISTA !!!!!!!!!!!
I KNOW THEY WANT US TO BE STUPID BUT COME ON '
SHE HAS GOT TO KNOW HE AINT WANTING TO BE WITH HER ,,,,,,,,,,,,LOL
Trust is good and necessary i dont disagree. but i can see you have never had that trust broken? Stop excusing a man and make him tow the line.. he would be furious if you flirted and looked with amazement at other men believe that.. he would go wanna smash that mans face in. lets not tote a double standard. and what is this about reaping the benifits of his naughty looks? So you gonna get to have some reward for yoru husband first lusting after another female? What if its her face he sees and not yours? come on . lets get real here. you want just crums or the whole cake? If a man is unfaithful its cause of his own selfish twisted mind. You cant run him into a womans arms.. trust is earned. if he looks then he didnt earn it. *looks with intent* its obvious when a man cant stop looking that he is interested in more then looking.
I really need some advice from someone, I have been married almost a year and my husband has already commited adultry. He says he don't remember but he had hickies on his neck. I trusted this man with all of my heart, he said that it will never happen again, the girl I suspect is of course pregnant now. They are suppost to be only friends. She said the night that that he did that that she came home from work and went to bed well her brother which was where my husband was at said that she came there for 5 minutes and left, she denied it, I called her and ask her if she was the one he messed with and of course she said no, he is married and I would never do that but when I ask her if they ever had sex she paused for a good minute and then said no. She said that they was going out last year and he even denies that. I am not sure if is still doing it. could this be his baby, is he lying to me and still doing it. Thank in advance for the advice.
Trust is good and necessary i dont disagree. but i can see you have never had that trust broken? Stop excusing a man and make him tow the line.. he would be furious if you flirted and looked with amazement at other men believe that.. he would go wanna smash that mans face in. lets not tote a double standard. and what is this about reaping the benifits of his naughty looks? So you gonna get to have some reward for yoru husband first lusting after another female? What if its her face he sees and not yours? come on . lets get real here. you want just crums or the whole cake? If a man is unfaithful its cause of his own selfish twisted mind. You cant run him into a womans arms.. trust is earned. if he looks then he didnt earn it. *looks with intent* its obvious when a man cant stop looking that he is interested in more then looking.
Trust is good and necessary i dont disagree. but i can see you have never had that trust broken? Stop excusing a man and make him tow the line.. he would be furious if you flirted and looked with amazement at other men believe that.. he would go wanna smash that mans face in. lets not tote a double standard. and what is this about reaping the benifits of his naughty looks? So you gonna get to have some reward for yoru husband first lusting after another female? What if its her face he sees and not yours? come on . lets get real here. you want just crums or the whole cake? If a man is unfaithful its cause of his own selfish twisted mind. You cant run him into a womans arms.. trust is earned. if he looks then he didnt earn it. *looks with intent* its obvious when a man cant stop looking that he is interested in more then looking.
Kelly,
I was watching the show that you and your husband were on! It really upset me. Before Dr. Phil said his opinion I was thinking.... "man her husband is so wrong and I hope Dr. Phil will SET HIM STRAIGHT" ...... Then when he said you had the problem I was SHOCKED. He said you had a insecurity issue. Well did he ever stop to think that maybe the reason your insecure was because your husband looks at other women. And maybe you feel as if your not attractive enough for him, so he has to keep checking people out? It is not okay for your husband to look at other women, its not insecurity and if I was you I wouldn't want him watching fear factor either because you know he will lust over them. He has not proved to you that he has his little wandering eyes problem under control. Dr. Phil asked if you were afraid he would cheat on you. Well the bible says in Matthew 5:28 "Do not commit adultery. Anyone who even looks at a women with lust in his eye has already commited adultery in his heart." Your a beautiful woman and he should not even have the desires to look, but even if you weren't attractive that is not the point. Marriage is not supposed to be based on physical attraction, because physical attraction is only temporary. If he was upset about you changing from the BIMBO stage to being conservative. Maybe you should question the reason he married you in the first place! YOu DESERVE the best EVERY WOMEN DOES. YOUR RIGHT HE IS WRONG. Good luck with this problem. I will pray for you and all the women in the audience who didn't stand up when he asked if they fought about their man lookin at others.
