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Don't go in angry, or with any expectations. 

Loss of control is of no help to you, and depending on how deep of denial your abuser is in.  You may not get through.

Unfortunately, the only way I've been able to confront my abusers was through the police.  But because of how old my case was not much was really done.  Although, I'm hoping it was enough to keep my younger cousins safe.  But because nothing was done, my grandpa went into denial big time, and on a couple of occasions I got a huge taste of how deep it went. 

I'm working on a letter as I refuse to talk to my grandpa in person.  I plan on telling him that I remember what he did, how long I've remembered and how much he has hurt me.  I don't think I will ever be able to fully forgive him.  Especially, since he has denied what happened and lied to my family about what occured.  I have long since learned that I can't forget about what happened, and probably will continue to remember long after he is gone.  I hope he is proud of himself.  As he no longer has me as a granddaughter.