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Even though I can say that I am not the most experienced partner in the bedroom, I've been married 3 times and all have said they fantasize about other women and sometimes about other men -- if you want to get really honest.

In my current marriage, I was also surprised to find out that my hubby's many past girlfriends ALSO fantasized about other people INCLUDING women.

I also could care less about porn.  I fully understand that porn is ALSO fantasy and it is NO reflection of me or who I am.

So I choose not to take any sexual fantasy personally.

I also fully believe in trusting my partner and giving him the benefit of the doubt.  He has given me NO reason not to trust him.  If my hubby says that a fantasy during sex means nothing, then I TRUST HIM to mean what he says.

Personally, I would RATHER he be completely honest with me than keep any secrets, you know?

Q