Quote From: susanasheWhy in the world do women get involved with anyone and then sneak around and drive themselves nuts snooping ? The guys could care less - the women are just hurting themselves. Get out and be alone for a while, learn to be confident and then and ONLY then will yu find a healthy relationship. Mistrust and snopping is NOT healthy - funny thing about being alone is that once you do it for awhile then you are less likely to hook up with anyone that is less than what you want and deserve. I have been happily alone for over 10 years and I date alot but I am picky in who I choose to CONTINUE to date. No three strikes here - first one and I am gone - and I am durn proud of it too. I dont give anyone any bull and I refuse to take it
Hey, haven't been on these boards for awhile :)
Anywho, if only it was that easy. I didn't suspect anything suspicious from my hubby til 9 years later. He bulked his muscles up, then had a total turn in attitude. All his new friends are female now and he even flirted while I was there and happily bragged about it (And had her number in his phone too I found out), even did some flirty touching. Found several odd things after that too with different gals. This is all somewhat recent (And I've been trying to deny it)
Not everyone who gets into a relationship knows who they'll eventually end up with.
Unfortunately, I never found out if he's cheating or not, and he denies it, so I put the searching on hold.
