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I am not sure about the U.S., but here in Canada we have a "Grandparents" law. It was put into place for exactly your reason. I am sure you can find something for your state/province on the internet. Look for "Grandparents Law" or "Grandparents Rights". Good Luck, We are having the same problem with my EX sister-in-law. My parents live in the same town, and have not seen my nefew in over a year. God Bless. Lorrie

Well whatever happened, you upset your daughter greatly.  You did not explain what caused the rift, so I dont know if your were being protective, or abusive, but she's the mom and she's got all the power.  Try to remember that in the future.  Meanwhile-- have you tried calling her and talking to her about what happened?  Remember.. Your children will never know how much you love them, until they have kids of their own.  now that she's a mom.. I would say exactly that on her machine, or say "I'm sorry' can we please talk about this ? and she's going to scream, or call you names or freak out.. but keep trying.  Once she gets past mad.. she's goes to fearful, and hurt and then you can start to see the grand kids.  You have to deal with why she deems you evil.  If you say.. reported her for drug use.. then yes, she would see you as evil, but the healthy part of her will see that you were just trying to help.  Again.. you did not explain WHY she thinks your evil.  My mom IS evil.. and you can see my post as to why... Favortism.